14 years on, and she is still a kook
Posted by Tired Of This Shit on January 15th, 2015 @ 2:26pm in Colorado
My ex wife and I have been divorced since late 2001, after just 26 months of marital bliss. Basically just long enough to buy a home together and have a daughter. Long story short - she took my 7 month old daughter during Memorial Day weekend 2001 and moved to Denver, which was some 350 miles away. No warning, no signs it was coming to that. There was no infidelity, no abuse. It happened very suddenly for no apparent reason. Fast forward to present day. I'm remarried and my daughter is now 14. My daughter lives primarily with the ex wife and comes to my place on weekends, holidays and breaks from school. It's been a turbulent ride over the years. Instead of having a drama free relationship for the sake of our daughter, the ex wife takes every opportunity to start pointless arguments with me about the stupidest shit. I believe she's also a wino, which compounds her propensity for being an unreasonable sociopath. Strangely, we work in the same industry. I phoned her last night to ask about something pertaining to our daughter. She mentioned she was at a tradeshow I might be interested in and I asked her to say hello to a mutual business associate. Well holy shit, you'd think I asked her to cut off one of her hands. "If he's your buddy, just call him yourself to say hello," she said. Whatever. I chalked it up to her usual bitchy self. And then today, she texts me and says, "so I was curious why you would want me to say hi to your buddy Gary when you don't even do any business with his company?" Fuck, who cares? I was just trying to be friendly. When I texted that back, she responded and said, "blow me." WTF? This is just the tip of the iceberg. Just last week, she emailed me and asked if we could talked about some expenses relating to our daughter. I missed the email. So the next day, just a few hours before I was supposed to pick up our daughter, I got this email from her: "Since you’re clearly too busy to communicate with me about financial things regarding our daughter, looks like we’ll go back to the drawing board once and for all. Regardless, it’s about time that we get all this settled once and for all anyway! Looks like she is staying here this weekend too since I didn’t hear from you. We also have plans next weekend already…" Settle what? There isn't anything that isn't already settled. I pay my damn child support and I pick up my daughter on weekends. It's how it's been for more than a decade. It was also recently my daughter's birthday. Instead of buying her a bunch of junk she didn't ask for, this year I told her I would take her shopping and she could pick some items. We spent the better part of a day shopping and the daughter didn't find much at the shops we visited. So I told her we'd continue later in the week. A few days later, I get a call from batshit crazy ex tearing me a new asshole about not buying the kid anything for her birthday. Again, WTF? I asked daughter what she told the ex and she said only that we went shopping and didn't find what she wanted. Somehow, that turned into I didn't buy her anything from crazy ex. Again, this is just recent events. She apparently goes out drinking regularly with a posse of middle aged skanks and leaves my daughter home alone. She has frequent unprovoked emotional outbursts at my daughter, including cursing and name calling. She's let her own business go to shit. And to top it all off, when she's supposed to pick our daughter up on Sundays, she oftentimes pays the neighbor kid across the street to be her errand boy and pick up our daughter. She's a scary fucking person. And get this, I have brought up the topic of coming to live with me full time with my daughter...and she says she can't because she's afraid her mom will slump into depression and possibly do something to hurt herself. That's my 14 year old. Anyway, I'm just venting. Feel free to leave any comments!
BOYFRIEND'S EX-WIFE IS CRAZY & UNMEDICATED!
Posted by KATHLEEN HENN IS A PSYCHO EX WIFE on September 15th, 2014 @ 12:07pm in SAYVILLE, NY
Never thought I would take to a hate blog, but when in Rome... She's 7 years older than him. He was always her safe meal ticket. She was sober when they married, but soonafter became a dictator, micromanaging bitch. He made a deal with the devil. She pushed out one aby and that was it. No more working. Why should she? She already had 2 other kids with 2 other men... Not sure what he was thinking. Fast forward to 10 years later, he finally gets his shit together, pulls the plug and serves her with divorce papers. She was never nice to him, used him for his money, ran up $30,000.00 in credit card debt, now all of a sudden he's the enemy and I, the "homewrecker" - She's pissed her free ride is over. She cut & pasted a picture of me from Linked-In, on some crazy scorned woman blog: most of which is fiction. Even the people who commented on it made fun of her. What an IDIOT! Even added my kid and his disability to it. Complete piece of shit. For their child's sake (she is a lovely little girl, even though poisoned by her mother's bitterness, anger & entitlement) I don't badmouth her to her own kid. She, on the other hand, spares no expense (with all the free time she has on her hands not working) trashing her ex to her kid. She's complete trash. He should have never married her, but you can't go back. Everyone has baggage, but for Christ's sake... What a waste of oxygen. Hopefully, she will die soon :)
Please Father, forgive them....
Posted by GratefulForFreedom on April 29th, 2014 @ 9:17am in MI
I will never forget what she said to me at 4 A.M. less than a month before she took the kids, left me, skipped town, and filed for divorce. She woke me up and was crying very loudly in the fetal position, and she basically screamed, "I hate my brain! I feel like I'm going crazy! I need help!". The divorce was final last year and I don't believe I'll ever truly understand what happened to the woman I loved. The only conclusion that makes any sense whatsoever is that she became delusional, and truly started to believe she married a horrible vicious animal who could hurt her and the kids at any moment. However, my version of reality is drastically different. The truth is I loved her with all of my heart. I never even thought about raising a hand to her or verbally abusing her. I did everything I possibly could to contribute to her happiness and dreams and provide a good life for her. Then after a few short months of abusing her own body with a concoction of medications and alcohol on top of sleep and food deprivation, she suddenly began blaming me as the reason for all of her unhappiness. I couldn't believe it. My wife had suddenly become someone else before my eyes. It was the most painful experience I have ever gone through, mostly because my innocent children are stuck in the middle of it.... After the major breakdown, she appeared to go from extreme love to extreme hate in a matter of weeks or even days. A massive delusional smear campaign full of false accusations against me soon followed, and sadly for the children it worked in court even though there was no evidence other than hearsay to support it (as they typically do against men nowadays). I'm now left with a huge support payment, anchored to our home and my job in the county my kids were born in, and worrying about my children being with her 85% of the time. It's horrible, but without and endless bank account there appears to be nothing I can do but pray for them. Ultimately, may God have mercy on these poor souls. Please Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.
Posted by Justice for T on April 11th, 2014 @ 10:14pm in California
I have had my boy-friend for over 4 years. When we first met he told me his ex wife was crazy. I will refer to her as the "K". She is officially a lunatic! During the 4 years she has continually taken him back to family Court. However, she has crossed the line this time. In 2011, my boyfriend was injured at work, a shoulder injury. Eventually had to have surgery. "K" works for the same agency. "K" called up the internal affairs department and file a complaint stating that my boyfriend was committing workman's comp. fraud. She admitted she never saw him do anything wrong but she just knew he was, and that he was a "bad role model" for HER son. Now, I work in law enforcement and the first thing that would raise my eyebrow would be an ex-wife wanting to file a complaint against her ex husband after being divorced and remarried after approx. 10 years. A real investigator would tell her to come back and give me something to work with..... Consider the source "an ex wife". So of course this agency took the ball a ran with it. The "K" informed the investigators of when , where and information for the investigators to easily locate my boyfriend and follow him. The "K" became chummy buddies with the investigators as they were on this "quest" to screw my boyfriend. The department notified workman's comp. who investigated my boyfriend and surveilled him for 6 weeks. Workman's comp. said NO he's not doing anything wrong and stopped their investigation..... BUT, no the department and the "K" just had to get him doing something wrong and continued to follow him for MONTHS. One day in family Court she told the Judge my boyfriend was under investigation and was going to be arrested. My boyfriend and I were like what are you talking about. Little did we know "K" while in family Court knew the department investigators were putting a GPS tracking system on his truck.... The "K" told them where he would be. After several more months go by my boyfriend and I drive up to my house and there are some investigators who say they have a search warrant for his house and his truck.... I knew immediately this had something to do with his ex-wife. The investigator admitted he knew it was my house. My house was NOT on the search warrant. The investigator said he would follow my boyfriend to his house.... The investigator followed my boyfriend into my house and began searching through MY house.... ILLEGAL SEARCH!!! The investigator allowed my boyfriend to get into his truck and didn't even search his truck for weapons??? I confronted the investigators and said "if this has anything to do with his ex-wife she is a Fxxxxx lunatic". The investigators looked at each other like "how did she know" Believe me it had the "K"s stink all over it. The investigator had a search warrant for that. Professionally that is poor officer safety (just a side note). After everything was done I read the search warrant. I told my boyfriend the investigators might as well as just "copied and pasted" from the "K"s family court paperwork because everything she didn't like my boyfriend doing with their son was on the warrant. and some how him doing activities with his son was workman comp fraud., well more months went by. The department tried to fire my boyfriend. The DA brought charges against my boyfriend, he was arrest and bailed out, and he had a full fledged jury trial. Yep during the jury trial the TRUTH came out. Well the truth was his ex-wife was all over this case.... Believe me she definitely made a wonderful impression upon jurors. lol! What's funny is the prosecution didn't want her as a witness (their star informant) and the defense. The defense supoena'd her and her husband because if they were on the witness list they could not go in the Court room and taunt my boyfriend. Oh believe me they tried to the first day. So the "K" is a pure cancer to both sides.... Pretty bad when NO ONE wants you!!!! Other people who were called in as witnesses lied all over the board, they were all throwing each other under the bus. Nobody could get their stories straight. I guess that's what happens when you start something on pure evil lies. The truth will come out. My Boyfriend was found NOT GUILTY on all charges. A 3 year ordeal. "K" did this so she could get full custody of their son..... Obviously this will backfire on her.... I firmly believe YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW ..... and after what she has done... I think rotting in hell would be easier.
when it goes to far
Posted by justice on April 9th, 2014 @ 11:42pm
I'll start off telling you I'm an ex wife and I think I try to understand there are always 2 sides to every story. Both my boyfriend of almost 2 years and I had children and got married young. We were both in these marriages for 10 plus years. He and his ex have been divorced for over 3 years. She left him and their 4 kids for another man. She tried to get him back but he was done after all the stunts she pulled. She got physical with him, there was a restraining order on her, the list goes on, you get it. He has custody of the 2 older boys and she has the 2 younger kids a boy and girl. When my boyfriend and I started to get more serious and involve our children, is when I found out that he had a crazy ex wife. It's been almost 2 years and I have never even talk to his ex because she doesn't want to. I'm respecting her decision but should I? I'll tell you a little about this childish behavior. My boyfriend and ex have split custody so he transports on his weekends and she does on hers. It took her a long time before she would even come over for curb side pick up if I was there. She would make him do it on her turns so she would have to see me. Saying that to this day I still haven't been ten feet from her. Why because she is to childish and doesn't want to meet me. So I respect that and I don't meet her. I once watch there little girl who was 4 at the time. The ex works night so she gets off work around 2. My boyfriend had his kids that night and brought the 4 year old to me in the morning when he went work. The other kids went to school. She had to wait tell her 15 year old got out of school to come pick her up. This was so he could just come to my door to get her. That way she didn't have to see or talk to me. This is we're I need advice. Should I just let her talk too me when she is ready? Our should I confront her so she doesn't have to make the first move? She has been abusive too her ex my boyfriend. She had threaten him I better not ever talk to her. Of course there is the name calling. She has called me every name in the book. She always has to tell my boyfriend that I'm ugly. Which really does hurt my feeling. But I'm not ugly and I move on. She does all the typical crazy jealous ex wife stuff. She left him I am not his first girlfriend do this is nothing about me or who I am. But let's get to the serious part. When she left she pretty much left the kids the too. I guess a good lawyer and the fact the the younger ones were 6 and under its how she got custody of them. Getting off track. My boyfriend has custody of his 13 year old and 15 year old boys. The 13 year old does not get along with his mom it's a fight tho get him to go with her. I don't blame him She had told him to never come back and won't take him when they fight. She has tired to turn the 2 kid s she has against him. Still this is just normal crazy ex wife stuff. This is the biggest reason I want advice. The ex wife and get boyfriend are alcoholics. She once had a friend drive her to my boyfriend house to do the kids off because she was drunk. She once came over to my boyfriend and set on his porch chugged a big drink and left a bit intoxicated. We just found out they drink and drive with the kids. Just this last weekend when she dropped the kids off She had 4beers and drank another one at his house! So she was again drinking and driving with her kids. My boyfriend didn't called the cops because he didn't know if she had enough to be drunk and the kids were staying with him. He says he is going to call the cops and get her caught. I know he doesn't want his kids or anyone else hurt. How involved should I get? Should I just sit back and let him deal with it?
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