Married to a pyscho!!
Posted by Burnt out Papi on December 26th, 2013 @ 4:59pm in Boston, Ma
I'm married to a total lunatic. She's very polarizing, she's Up or Down, Happy or Depressed, Sweet or Psycho, Yes or No, 1 or 10 etc, etc. (no in-betweens) The roller coaster ride is more volatile than ever after 33 years. Stayed with her even after she walked out on me and the kids a few times, me thinking I had to hold it all together. Over time, she has debilitated me like her mother did to her father did and her mother's mother did to her own husband. They drank a lot for solace and refuge and burnt holes in the colons dying of cancer eventually while the widows partied on-the grandmother went banging her husbands brother 2 weeks after he passes- Great role model for my wife!. I refuse to be killed by this monster. I know divorcing her will be as bad as tolerating her unpredictability. She smiles as she kills. I've dedicated my whole live to the care-taking our our kids, family , house, personal and even the laundry. No sex anymore. Wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. Sex really does mean something to me more than just a ejaculation so I'm not wasting any more of me in her. Anyway, she beats me up verbally always and ever so cleverly around others. I'm very strong mentally but kids noticed she's cracked my armor a little. Time to cut this crazy loose and get financially raped? Open for advice as to how to end it.
Borderline Personality Disorder Ex
Posted by Victim of a Sociopath on December 14th, 2013 @ 8:06pm in Atlanta GA
(This is my opinion to which I am entitled) If you meet a divorced middle-aged woman in Atlanta named Lisa H you need to RUN!!! You may not be tempted as she has gone from a very good looking woman to something that looks (and has been) rode hard and hung up wet. Due to a lifetime of hard drinking, heavy smoking and lack of personal care you'll probably give her a look only if you're desperate to get laid. She may seem nice but she's deceptive, been banged more times than a cab door and lives like a slob. Very Important! First, do a Google search on Borderline Personality Disorder. BPD women were mentally screwed up early in childhood and grow up to be extremely horrible in relationships. They have extremely low self esteem and are highly toxic. You are never in the relationship that you think you are in with them. You are living in a highly dysfunctional situation that is going to push you to dark places and destroy your sense of self, drive, ambition and mental health. When you first meet a BPD woman they are an absolute dream - they love you, are sexual and will seem to be exactly what you want - the coolest girlfriend ever. They tell you all about how they've been hurt, abused, etc. to get your sympathy. If you get lured in and you try to be the "white knight" your adventure into hell has started. After they lure you in and as they feel that you are hooked they begin to morph into an insecure and increasingly hostile psycho that will alienate your family, friends and hate whatever you enjoy (hobbies, car, etc.). Sex disappears, attacks on you escalate and the distancing behaviors go into full motion. They begin to tear you down with mental, verbal and physical abuse all the while playing the victim and never admitting to any wrongdoing. They will often try to get you to hit them, cheat on them or otherwise do something where they become the victim and use it as reason to abandon you. And yes, you will be part of the victim story told to the next guy she snares. When she has totally torn you down she will then she view you as worthless and abruptly abandon you. You will be shell shocked and devastated that you gave her your all and she simply used you - she is an emotional vampire. She will convince you that you are the problem, you are crazy and you ruined everything - BUT she will want to be your friend. BPD women cheat and lie while they accuse you of doing it - a LOT of projection going on! Many are violent (rage) and it is almost impossible to ever make them go away. To people outside of the relationship they seem nice and normal - they are VERY skilled at deception, lying and manipulation. You can get drawn into this nightmare in a subtle manner like walking into an ambush. Don't be tricked! A lifetime series of short failed relationships tells you all you need to know - my attempt to make a marriage work wasted some of my best years. If you meet her do not engage just GET AWAY FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by THEY EXIST on December 5th, 2013 @ 5:13pm in MI
Gents if you run across a Stacy W. in Ottawa Co. MI, for your own sanity RUN! Pathological liar, documented personality disorder, rarely showers or shaves, dresses like a man, and hates all men. Hates her now ex-husband even more than she loves her kids. I've read the poor guy's story, and WOW! We all know man-hating lesbo's exist and guess what? Their biological clocks still tick!! If they're bat$hit crazy enough they will hide who they really are just long enough to score some sperm and secure a paycheck.... Scary but true! THEY EXIST
Posted by Free at last on November 27th, 2013 @ 12:47am in Tipton County, TN
Guys, Steer away from Priscilla M. with three boys in Tipton County TN. She has put her recently divorced husband through the ringer. False criminal charges (dropped), multiple trips to court over petty issues and not to mention Bill Clinton type of stuff. Be careful.
Nut job of all nut jobs?
Posted by Kevin on November 12th, 2013 @ 11:48am in California
My ex moved out the first week of August 1993. The divorce was final in May 1995. Twenty years later, you'd think that she'd have moved on, gotten a life, and forgotten about me, right? Wrong. She' like some disease for which there's no cure. The next outbreak is always around the corner. After getting divorced, I took a break from women, retreated to my cave to lick my wounds and heal. When I re-emerged from my cave and started to date, my ex would be punitive and vengeful, bad mouthing me to our children and dragging me into court on some kid or custody issue. This pattern persisted for years. About five years ago, I decided to try something new. I sought solace by attending daily Mass. As I attended Mass, I went through this faith renaissance which culminated in me discerning for diocesan priesthood. Did that for the last 14 months. A few weeks ago, my ex found out that I had applied to enter seminary. She wrote a lengthy letter to the diocese which has to be one of the most vicious character attacks ever written. Although a legion of people have come forward to set the record straight, she's killed my application to seminary. How/why? I'm being told off the record that if she's willing to say things like this to the Church now, there's no reason to believe that she wouldn't do it again after I'm a priest, and that her hateful statements would not only impair my ministry, but potentially cause a scandal. Thus, I'm being told to find other ways to answer His call. There's no way for me to adequately express with mere words, what it's like to have someone in your life who, after 20 years, refuses to let go, and remains intent on mucking up your life in any/all ways possible. So, I'm looking for a worse tale of woe than mine. I think I could take some measure of comfort in knowing that someone else has an ex who is even more unhinged than mine.
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